Can I get joint custody of my son if my ex and I never married?

Yes, you can get both physical and legal joint custody. You may have to take a DNA test since you were never married to your son's mother but it will be worth it in the end. Don't let anyone try to take your child from you.

Am I going to take too many energy drinks?

No, one a day isnt bad... its more like 6 a day that can make you sick... and something to keep you energixed during? Well Mint can relax you and keep you thinking straight because mint clear you oxegen nasal path ways which give more oxagen, which help your brain. MINTT!

Hearing voices! What do I do?

My best friend, who is a former drug addict that suffered a relapse about a month ago, and is also type 1 Bipolar, is hearing voices every time he trying to go to sleep. He says, "Idk what to say. But make it stop. The f****** voices. The f****** screams. The whispers. It won't stop. Every time doze off. I hear people talking. Then it goes down to people whispering. Then a complete silence. Then a piercing scream wakes me up." When I asked him if he had a headache or had taken anything he said no. When I asked him if he could understand what they were saying he said, "I can't understand them. It's right as i fall asleep. It sounds like a hundred people at once all saying different things." When asked if he is depressed or stressed or anything, his reply is he doesn't know what he is. He wont go to a doctor because he doesn't want to be looked in the eye and told he is a psychopath. I don't know what to do or what to tell him. Please help me! I am worried something might happen to him.

Would it effect when I'd be able to apply for college if I retook two classes senior year?

You should talk with your school counselor with this. It sounds like you could be successful, but it all depends on what colleges you're going to. Some have strict rules when it comes to what classes they expect their incoming students to have taken and passed. I even know some colleges that are ok with 3 yrs of science and math. It all depends. But I definitely encourage you to talk with the school counselor to have everything straight before you start applying to colleges.

Do you think my dad is being insensitive? I don't know what to do?

Yes, he sounds a little insensitive. Since he wants to be the alpha-male, maybe you can use it to your advantage. That's an awful long walk in the middle of the night just to use the restroom, especially with all those wild animals. You may have to wake him up in the middle of the night so that he can walk with you, to protect you. It's not safe for a young girl to go walking alone in the night to go to the restroom. Since he had to make reservations, I'm guessing that there will be other campers there. Does he know who they will be? Is he absolutely positive that there won't be any wackos camped between you and the restrooms? If your mother couldn't convince him, I doubt that you can do it either. Maybe play up his ego. Let him know how much you're looking forward to it because you know he'll be there for you. If that doesn't work, maybe ask for some extra camping gear, like a whistle and some pepper spray.

I think i need a change......?

I'm not even sure if this is the right category to be writing in or what. I don't really know where else to turn. I am a 21 year old female. I have, until last semester and one a few semesters previous, been enrolled in college, although no real passion or path in what to do with my life. My major was communications/broadcast journalism, but I honestly did not have a real strive for it, and was not particularly great at broadcast journalism. My grades plummeted and I eventually was forced to enroll in community college, where I didn't do too great, I was just taking basic gen-eds. I then and still have no idea and have tried to figure out with no success a path for myself, which led to extreme laziness. I've had off and on jobs (nothing career-wise). Money went to utilities, groceries, weed (which, yes, did start a little bit of the problem, but has also helped with stress and anxiety..etc). I'm now living with my two best friends. I'm a waitress at a local restaurant in my town. I'm not enrolled in school. I just work. The same days. Every week. They don't sell alcohol. I mostly wait on old people. I bet working somewhere with a bar or something would be more fun, and I would meet some cool people. My social life is not 1/10th what it used to be. I do the same thing every day. I, like, sleep late. Wake up/get ready for work if i do that morning. One morning during the week, one or two on the weekends. The rest of my shifts start at four or five. I have the same two days off in a row a week. All the servers where I work are girls. Some of them are pretty bitchy. A few of them are cool. My best friend works there. I live with her (18) and my other best friend(21). One is in school, the one that works with me is not. I have no boy in my life at all, although I wish I had. I used to be so social. I sometimes go out, and guys do talk to me. But I'm also pretty picky. I can't help it. I don't even want a BOYFRIEND, per se. But I'm in such a slump. I'm good looking, I'm not trying to bound stuck up. I think a lot of people see me as a sl*t. No further comment on that really, I don't know. I thought about going to a REALLY good cosmetology school, but I deep, deep, deep down know it is not for me. It is the feeling I have with everything career-wise. Absolutely nothing feels right and I feel like I would have known it by now.. ? Maybe I should take some career aptitude test or something? That seems so easy. My life is boring. I wish something or someone could make it interesting for me again. I feel at times it's miserable. Am I going to be staying in a shitty apartment waiting tables the same day every week alone for my entire life? My parents live four hours away from me, now. But we love each other very much. They greatly express how much they love and miss me. I don't think they know how much I love and miss them. They moved away after we moved to the town we were in and I was in school, living with two of my friends, 18, and happy. SO i stayed behind. Which was totally okay at the time. I was, and maybe still am, okay on my own. I eventually had a boyfriend who I saw as perfect. We dated for a year and a half. We were in love. He later moved to Dallas after he graduated college. I don't know what to make of that. I honestly do not know if it has anything to do with anything (I don't know what to call this at all, honestly.) If this were a year, maybe a little bit over, ago, I would have no problem opening up to a friend or something. Between those two times I smoked a LOT of pot, which maybe helped with some aspects, but I've researched that it temperaliry rewires the brain when habitually used. I know, not the smartest idea. I know. Everything else, I don't know. Do I moved home? I don't know who to talk to. I'm sorry if this is stupid. I just don't know what to do.

I need a little guidance in my life?

I'm 18 and very soon to be 19. My whole life I've lived in fantasies. I've spent time pretending to be a high school basketball star, a star athlete, a genius writer. The list goes on. I've always strived to impress, or rather make a strong impression on a group of people who are either ignorant or doubtful of my latent talent. With highschool done, I have no immediate group of peers left to make a strong impression on. Because I'm so slow I can't keep a fast paced job and I lost my only well suited job at a call centre due to my own stupid negligence (lesson learned). I'm slowly watching myself become less of a "child with potential" and growing into a grown man who lives with his parents, has no job or drivers license. I failed my first semester of University and I'm really skeptical that I will do well. For the past few years, I've been stuck in a guitar playing fantasy. It started in high school when I was 15 I received a guitar. I immediately started fantasizing about impressing my high school peers. I became fixated on it, and I deluded myself into thinking that I would "win" and the credits would roll. I would have a "Yo Adrian, I did it!" moment. I'm still stuck in that fantasy, and I'm begin to test the patience of not only my parents and those around me, but myself. I'm self aware enough to know that I probably won't have enough success as a musician to support myself financially. This dream/fantasy, the guitar one I mean, is different. I'm playing shows, and getting infront of audience. However I can't help but feeling like a archetypical loser. I mean, no job, failing university student with some deluded rockstar dream? The crazy part is, I STILL fantasize. I get home from playing a show and I put on music and fantasize about impressing people. But not at a show... at a party with a group of peers who are ignorant and/or doubtful of my abilities! It's crazy, I've already made my shows known to people, and the girls who never paid attention in high school are curious about when the next show is. On the one hand, I'm the guy who's winning over club owners with my songs and lyrics and slowly becoming into the adult I want to be. On the other, I can't hold a job, I have terrible grades, and I'm on my way to being 26 years old and still living with my parents, and STILL fantasizing about showing that hot girl on the bus I can play a mean solo! I never wanted to be the loser guy who "still hasn't given up on the band", but I sadly feel I'm destined to become that. I'm not a "music is my life" kind of guy, in that I dont believe its all or nothing. But I feel like a bad american idol audition waiting to happen. I dont wanna play a show and have no one show up. Or have a friend or a parent say "just give it up". I dont wanna borrow money from an uncle to "buy a van" and "tour the world". I dont wanna be the guy at family reunions everyone feels sorry for. I don't want to be a failure at life, or a loser. But I fear I am headed down that road, anyone have any thoughts?

Schedule M-1 for Federal 1120's tax form and dividends?

If a corporation received dividends from an affiliated corporation, are these funds included on the Schedule M-1 form? If so, which line would they be included on?

Should Barack Obama strive to achieve the high moral standards that Newt Gringrich has?

High moral standards? Newt "Getting Rich" Gingrich? That's a laugh. (But of course you already know this and are just trying to stir up sh1t with your question, aren't you? Of course you are.)

Care to Critique My Poem?

This is actually pretty good. I'm too lazy to go through and tell you what you need to fix. You're the best judge of that. The couple of parts that seem sort of iffy, just take them out and make them something better.

How many PowerPoint presentations do you think you might have sat through in your whole life?

Never had to.Without them there would be no need for laser pens.If I had to sit through one I'd have a rogue laser pen to wind people up.

Sleeping Problems, Why Am I Not Tired Anymore?

A little you might want to ask your Doctor what is happening with your sleeping patterns, maybe ask for sleeping pills

Would you rather be lucky or good?

We're not talking absolutes here. Nobody is lucky 100% of the time, but one can strive to be good most of the time.

Why is he so suspicious of me?

The guy is a jealous maniac. Get used to it if you want to continue to see him. Walk away if you want to maintain any level of privacy or independence.

When will humans realize that the stars above hold are answers.?

looking at how mankind evolved from the bronze age to the technology age. I sit here and wonder when will we realize that are future is in exploring space. finding new energy sources. The moon holds precious resources that would end are striving for fuel. Mars has rich resources, and so on. we should stop shooting each other and work together to achieve a greater purpose.

Having your appendix out while pregnant?

I was having a ton of pain yesterday. I am 6 weeks pregnant. Turns out its my appendix. Im scheduled for surgery tomorrow morning. The surgeon and my OB doctor said the baby looks good and this surgery should not affect the baby. Im still just so worried about my unborn child. Anyone have their appendix out when pregnant.

I cant stop staying up at night?

Exactly as it says on the tin, I cant stop staying up at night, no matter what i do i always seem to stay up well past even 3 or 4 am. Its just if i try and go to sleep at a normal time like 11-12 i find it hard because i think i may have sleeping problems. it takes me for ever to get to sleep, i need to be totally wreecked before i can doze off, any ideas on helping me?

How many of you felt like this at 3-4 weeks?

Hey, i was just wondering, how many of you got symtoms like these in v early pregnancy. Watery or sometimes thick CM, extreme tiredness (went to sleep at 8.30 am after a cuppa, ment t doze for an hour, woke up at 1PM!! i am peeing loads, even during night, n having realy weird dreams, feeling nauseous during evening, and feeling faint when too warm. Now, i havent got my just yet, but am pretty sure it will be that. but how many of you felt like that, oh, and i can feel my uterus really well too. so, how may of you felt like that in very early pregnancy?? When i did a the other night, it got a firnt line for few seconds then went away!! and my boobs have grown very quickly n feel odd! Did any of you ladies get like this??

What do Aboriginal people like the Larrakeya people intend to do with the land that they're fighting for?

Aboriginal peoples are always fighting to get land 'back'. They're always protesting and carrying on because they want 'their land' back. This land is obviously currently Government land, and for the most part has buildings and homes on it. So if the Govt were to hypothetically just give the land back, what would the Aboriginies do with it? Would they bull doze all the buildings and set up humpees? Would they just leave it as bush?

Yeast infection cream? (women)?

i have a yeast infection and i have been using the monistat 7 day treatment. the cream type. im on my 2nd day. after i put it in i lie down. for usually about 10 minutes like the instructions say. but once ive done that when i get up and walk or sit up on my bed the cream still comes out. how long should i lie down? is the cream supposed to harden inside of you or something? im going to start putting it right before i doze off to sleep but i just applied some and i wanna clean my room and get up cuz my back is hurtin from laying on it. please answer my questions above.

Safe during placebo week on birth control?

Also,if I have sex minutes before I am scheduled to take my birth control,am I protected?After the sexual activity ended(12:55pm)I proceeded to take my pill at it's usual time of 1:00pm.Sorry if it's too much detail,lol.Any assistance would be wonderful :)

How to deal with your boyfriend being gone?

My boyfriend was unemployed for a year of our relationship...finally he found a good job a few months ago.My boyfriend works ALL the time and he works difficult hours. He works over time all the time and works super late at night so half the time he ends up staying at his really good friends house that he works with because his friend lives right down the street from his work whereas he lives a good 30-40 min away from his job. Basically its been hard getting used to him not being around as much as he used to be, we agreed that the two days a week he has off of work are "our" days together. yes its been hard only seeing him twice a week but when we do see eachother its something that we both realllllly look forward to and we do really fun stuff when we spend time together. Well....we finally started getting into the groove of his work schedule but yesterday he was over at my house and he got a voicemail from another job. My boyfriend then explained to me that his friend/co-worker that he goes home with after work sometimes has a friend that needs work done to his boat and needs the wood and a bunch of stuff re-done on the boat and wants my boyfriend and his friend to help re-store the boat. The only upsides to this job is that he'll be making GOOD money and that this retsoring the boat job is only going to be a 3 month project max. My boyfriend explained to me that he feels that he really needs to take this job to plan for our future. So now he will be working two jobs and we really wont see eachother! I can tell he really doesnt want to take the job but he needs to do it. My boyfriend didnt go to college so in his words he "needs to start working his *** off if he ever wants to get anywhere". I know that he's upset like I am but its hard because as of right now I am out of school because its summer and I'm not working as of recently so i have A LOT of free time so it makes me sad for him to not be around and miss out on things. Like I said, he's voiced to me many times that it makes him very sad that he misses out on things with me but he wants to "man" up and work work work so he can start a life for us. I know he has good intentions but Its just hard for me to wrap my mind around that he wont be around a lot. I've talked myself through it and we've had good supportive conversations about it and he;s trying to make me feel as comfortable as possible with it. I just know that we wont be able to see eachother a lot and he wont have his phone most of the time because he's working so if I ever want to talk to him or I am upset or anything he wont be there for me to just call.....Im going to have to wait until he's available to talk. Any advice?? I know he's given me as much as advice and support as he can but I would love to hear any ideas anyone has that would make this time apart easier!

Can I sue my teacher for unjust marking?

You'd be better off seeking some sort of resolution from the school administration rather than jumping into some sort of legal battle.

I am completely lost...?

So im in grade 10 doing work experience this summer and i applied to footlocker. I've called and stuff and so the manager asked me to drop my schedule by the store which i did. So it's been a week since and she hasn't called me or anything yet and i don't know what to do. should i call and ask if she still wants me to work experience there? I am completely lost. I have to hand in these forms and schedules of when i will be working in a few days and i still havent done an interview yet. Well, i would have finished the interview by now but on that day she had some sort of meeting to go to. i also have problems talking to people on the phone. I stutter and get really nervous and say really stupid stuff. What should i do?

What is the best thing to do?

first of all I wouldn't have had a baby with someone that I was fighting with. If he breaks up with you sue his *** for child support. Don't make the government pay for the kid.

4th time of ufo sightings?

i'll start from the 4th, i was re-felting my shed roof it was very hot so i stood up to flex my back and looked up above my neighbours roof to notice a silver chrome ball about 40ft above it was about 3 times the size of a football then boom gone really fast i had a 3 second look 3rd this wasn't a sighting but a sound a very weird one i was just dozing off then it came i thought a plane was about to smash through my house but it came to a stop and made like a thumping sound so i just s hit it and hid like a child under my blanket i asked my mum if she herd it i made the noise she said no but my brother heard our conversion and said he heard it to trust it was loud. 2nd me and my cousin (long story short) were fishing and a big plane like an air port plain flew down at us and just stopped silently above our heads for about 8 seconds then flew off like they do in them star trek films we sprinted to the car left all our fishing gear (went bk 4 it next day) funny thing is we were only down there half hour setting up but about 3 months after we were told by a few people we were there for 2 and a half hours even tho it happened i still can believe i saw it. now the first time it happened is when i was a child about 6 years old i woke up in this big room the size of a wear house with nothing but a stair case leading up to a door of blinding light it was the only place i could go so i went up and thats all i remember of that one. there a few other encounters but i sound crazy enough as it is the reason i put this up is just to get it out there if im supposed too i dont know, i hope they dont spank my but for this lol one other thing the world aint gunner end for a long time but that dont mean we are it will just restart over and over lol

Does anybody know if i sign up for foxsoccer.tv, can i watch whats on the schedule for the day?

im trying to watch usa vs mexico gold cup game, and its on fox soccer tonight but i dont have cable.

Babysitters in the Southchase, FL Area?

I just moved here from CA and new to the Southchase area. I've currently been hired at the movie theatres near my home, and at another store in the same complex. The problem is my work is walking distance from my home, but negotiationg a reasonable fee for my kids 6yrs& 1 1/2 yrs and to have the sitter available for a flex shift is hard to find. my first job has a shift that varies between 12noon-5:30p and 5:30pm-11pm....the second jobs schedule is yet to be determined. I have no car hense the close jobs. If anyone knows someone who's interested please have them contact me at danica.adams2010@gmail.com I would love to negotiate a price with you!!! I'm a single parent in need of some help so please let me know anything that could help!

Period... please help, urgent!?

Cold water and regular soap. Wash in cold water then use soap and wash it and should come out of your clothes. Then wash them . As for your bed just wash your sheets on the cold setting.

Greyhound.com Web only fare,standard fare,or REFUNDABLE ?

Well I'm on Greyhound.com trying to set up a bus schedule and at step 2 it asks me "Web only fare" "Standard Fare" or "REFUNDABLE" I don't know what any of this stuff means. O: Explain?

Why should kids get in trouble for sleeping at school?

I'm not talking about the kids who sit back and allow themselves to fall asleep. I'm talking about the kids who are struggling to keep their eyes open and end up dozing off. in my school, if you fall asleep twice in a marking period, you get detention. if you fall asleep again you get suspension. It isn't their fault if they fall asleep though! you can't help it if you nod off for a little bit when you're seriously trying your hardest to stay awake. it isn't something people have control of. it just seems pointless to me to punish someone for something out of their control

Is this fairly good stuff?

Im going to be a sophomore too and i think your classes are REALLY good! I wish i could take all of those but I hate math so im just taking geometry and not algebra 2. My only honors classes are spanish 3 honors, english 2 honors, and african american history honors. I think you'll definitely get into the Univiersity of your choice.

What are some good careers in the music industry? Also what degrees would I need?

I love music. Like it's my passion. But I am really confused about what I should do in life with it. I know it's really tough to make it anywhere in the music industry, but I wanna strive for it anyway. I was thinking that being in a band or being a singer is not exactly "my thing" even though I love doing both. Anywho, I need some ideas. Please help me!

My girlfriend talks in her sleep?

So sometimes wen im talking on tge phone with my girlfriend she'll doze off and begin to sleep talk . When she does this shes always sayn how her ex boyfriend is better than me in such and such ways. When i tell her what she told me she says she has no recolexion of what happened. She cries and swares its not true. Why do you think she says these things that she says arent true? Please help

Why are my taxes going up again in Texas?

sounds like they hitched their wagons to property taxes... then property values took a nose dive and they are scrambling to fill in the big hole...

How important is two weeks notice?

I'm recently turned twenty and in the beginning of August I'm going to be moving across the country with my girlfriend. My boss is the kind of guy who calls your parents or husband if there's any problem no matter your age, and I know he'll call my parents when I put my two week's notice in. I'm getting about seven to ten hours a week for no real reason (I'm a good employee and the managers are all asking for more hours for me to no avail) so if I did walk out, the schedule wouldn't get that messed up (I work at a fast food place). I know the managers would give me good references no matter what because I work hard, am never late, never call in sick, and I get along with everyone there. So....how important is a two week's notice? I can't let my parents know that I'm leaving until I'm actually gone because they're homophobic bigots and have threatened to kick me out if I became a lesbian before, and for now I'm dependent on them. It's a complicated situation.

Does anyones baby shake their head side to side right before they sleep?

yes, my son always does that, and he also rubs his eyes. She's probably just exercising and finding her voice, don't worry :)

How can I focus on schoolwork?

I can never focus even when I am sitting at a desk reading. I always doze off while doing work so I rarely get anywhere unless I drink a large cup of coffee. HELP!!!

Can someone write me a cycling training schedule that will make me go to the TDF?

Im 16 years old, quite fit, currently riding on the road/mtb/windtrainer about 5 times per week. I'm Elliot, I want to race in the Tour De France. I am dedicated, and will ride whatever is required of me. I hope to build up my cycling strength until I am ready to compete in the TourDeFrance. I have been riding a fair bit... I came 3rd at the New Zealand Triathlon Nationals, but have cut back on my training, and now I want to focus solely on riding. I am starting to ride about 4-5 times per week. I need someone to help me stay on track, give me a training schedule, and I'll go far. This is my goal, and I'll strive for it.

Why is my mother insane about me turning 21?

I turn 21 in a couple of months. Around the same time that I go back to school and my younger sister starts college for the first time. Dinner started out just fine until my parents gave some pre college advice to my younger sister and then my mom found that as an opportunity to call me a drunk idiot. She then proceeded to question me as to how many times I had been drunk in the past year (zero by the way) and then continued to yell at me for having a social life. She told me that at school I should only be focusing on school and not going out with friends, in fact she even suggested that I get rid of my friends because they're worthless and will probably stab me in the back (take it my friends are 4.0 students like myself and striving towards different career goals). Before I even had the chance to realize what was going on, she then told me that if I take a drink of alcohol then I'm going to die because alcohol kills people. I then calmly tried to tell her that I was responsible and had never been drunk before and don't plan to (I am telling the truth). She didn't believe me and told me I was an idiot that didn't care about anything that she said and that I was going to end up dead in a ditch before 30. So I told her a little more angrily this time that I wasn't an idiot and I know the consequences. She then turns around and says that I constantly say I know everything and that I should just shut up because I don't and then she proceeded to tell me a story about a homeless person who never drank any alcohol and then went on to run his own business. Because according to her alcohol + me turning 21 = complete failure and how I will never be as good as my younger sister, of course my dad sides with her because he doesn't want to upset her. Now take it I'm a pretty smart guy in both books and common sense and I know the consequences. But what I don't understand is why my mother is so adamant about me dying when I turn 21 and why I should only focus on school and fore go a social life. Why am I never as good as my younger sister in the eyes of my mother?

What does this poem mean?

I think this song may be talking about how everybody has imperfections, even the people who seem perfect. Everybody has their "alligator".

How can I get 2 year old on a reasonable sleeping schedule I work 4pm-midnight.?

My grandmother watches him while I'm at work. Full-time student and work full-time. I rarely sleep but I would like my child to sleep more than 2/3 hours at a time. On days im off his schedule is great just during the week it changes. Thanks In Advance

Since almost every person on the planet agrees we need to love one another more, why do people make fun of, ..?

because some think that love didn't come from God and that he is love. also many rather sin because doing what God wants means taking the narrow road.

At what age is my baby old enough to be away from me overnight?

I'm having a baby next month and his father and I aren't together. We're trying to work out a visitation schedule and I'm wondering at what point the baby will be okay to stay at his dad's without me? I'm also going to breastfeeding and plan on keeping frozen milk at his dad's

What kind of cell phone do you have?

I have a blackberry curve 3G from Koodo. If you live in Canada and are looking for a new phone go with Koodo, they recently have added the Iphone 4G.

Felt like hell the other night...?

Well basically the other day I stayed up for 24 hours. I felt fine other than just being tired and dozed off right after being up that long. about an hour and a half late I woke up feeling like pure hell. I had diahrrea and vomited twice before nodding off again. I also had extreme hot sweats, dizziness, rapid heartbeat, and was seeing red spots in the air. It has been about a week since this happened and I know I need to see a doctor but was wondering if this could have been caused from, too much caffiene(i drink a lot of pop) the pizza I ate, or maybe not enough sleep. Any answers will do and thx for the help.

My Retarded Nephew Is Coming To Visit. How Can I Prepare?

It sounds like a challenging situation. However, applying Luke 10:27, " love your neighbor as yourself ", means kindness goes a long way. If we treat others with love and kindness, that is what will come back to us. You can't go wrong when you apply bible counsel.

How Can I Make 600 Dollars (Or More) in One Month?

Come up with things you can do for friends, family and neighbors that they would be willing to pay for. Babysitting, pet sitting, watering plants and flowers, etc. are all great ways to make some cash for the summer. Unfortunately, there is no quick easy way to get cash, but hard work will pay off. Whatever you do, be safe about it. Stick to working for people that you know, and make sure to have your parents approval and make sure they know where you are when you are doing for for people! Good luck with your business venture!

Got job offer at Geico...Will they still hire me after seeing I have battery misdemeanors?

I have 4 battery misdemeanors from a few years ago...(abusive boyfriend....I never hit anyone...arrested both of us).....but all the charges were dropped, so I never actually spent jail time for any of them, excep the very first which ended in me getting probation for 8 months. Will they still hire me? I am scheduled to start training next week!

How do I change the schedule of what days my ads appear on Google adwords?

The instructions on Google's help page are not helpful and are not correct. There is no EDIT button next to ad scheduling. There is only a question mark that tells you about ad scheduling when you click on it and it tells you how to do it but the EDIT option is not there like it says on the help page. Google also says you can call or contact them via email but the email contact is greyed out and unable to be used and the business hours are closed. There is no 24 hour tech support. UGH!

Please help me through.. career decision.. NESS TECHNOLOGIES or CSC..?

I would find 3-5 people who are currently working in the embedded software industry, and do a short information interview. This can be done on the phone or even by e-mail - all you are asking is for their story on how they got to where they are, what they feel was most important in terms of what they learned along the way. What this does is give you a clear picture of your path forward, and what experience you need to pick up along the way. Hopefully these conversations will give you enough clarity to evaluate the two positions and see which one will give you more of what you need to achieve your ultimate goal.

Boyfriend sleeps within seconds?!?!?

So he told you he's been taking sleeping pills (which are almost never natural) - the human body isnt ready to go to sleep for a reason, and he's making it go to sleep. All of these pills can cause side effects which arent good and could lead to further problems with his sleeping patterns. Sincerely ask him again if he's stopped taking the pills, and if he has it may take a few weeks for the effects to wear off. Otherwise tell him to consult with a doctor.

My best friend acts like she knows more about horses than me?

She's probably just concerned about certain things and worries and asks questions. I don't think she means to come off acting like she knows more than you. But it isn't something to get upset over, just brush it off because you know more of what you are talking about then she does.

Please help me - roommate issue over guest visiting?

I have had this same issue come up living with roommates. I am a social person but I feel that your home is your home and there is where you should be comfortable and be able to have you time. Something about having overnight visitors just rubs me the wrong way. I don't think you were over reacting at all. You even tried to compromise with your roommate. Sounds like maybe next time get a 1 bedroom or studio and live on your own... With roommates there is always something!!

How would I type to convey that someone has a stuffy nose?

It's for a short story I'm writing. One idea I have is to replace 'n's with 'd's (i.e. "I have a stuffy doze" for "I have a stuffy nose"). Would that work? Any other ideas?

Why do I doze off in Church at school?

Could have something to do with the fact that it is archaic, mind-numbing gibberish about the social and cultural opinions of a tribe of 14th century BC desert nomads, while you are living in the 21st century in the nuclear age?

I'm a guitarist, guitar is my life but I'm on a bit of a downer?

Ibanez, jackson, esp or even a custom les paul like slash's guitar all have thin necks and trust me, are far easier. I took upon alternate picking about 6 months ago. I can do it much quicker but it may be hard to incorparate it at first becuase if you can do it faster just down picking it like me, i get carried away down picking and forget to alternate pick. I can do hand of blood down picked at full speed down picked but not alternatley, not that fast but it does ache :L. Its messed up tbh just try and keep practicing.

Who can put me a shot of birth control (not my OB/GYN)?

I am on De pro Vera Birth Control and my shot is schedule in two months, but I am moving to another city this month, I can't make it to my OB/GYN on time WHO can I look for someone to put me my shot in the new city? Does hospitals can help? Clinics?

Do I have a sleeping disorder?

I think what you are describing is sleep paralysis. Research it in wikipedia and see if your symptoms match. Good luck :)

Was I molested? HELP! (Long...but please read it all)?

You need to call the police and/or Child Protective Services. This guy is messed up and you need to get away from him as soon as you can.

Should I take my son to the ER? Fever, vomiting, stomach pain...?

Duhh take him, I didn't even have to read the whole thing to tell you that! Get off the computer & take your son to the doctor.

My school eff'ed up my schedule AGAIN what do I do?

this is not the first time this has happened to me freshman year I HAD to take computer lit (requirement) and they took it out and gave me an extra study so I'm taking it this year (sophomore year) and the last day of school I had to fight with my consular to get me into improve theater guess what... I went online and NONE of my classes are even right. I have 2 studies AGAIN, health, science, chorus, english, math, and world cultures. What I don't understand is how did I get two studies and where is my improve class and computer lit. and for second semester they stuck me in a reading class...which I don't need. I understand I'm under their records for special ed but come on I'm not that special I only need it for math and they are putting me in a special ed science which I don't need I'm SICK of getting the special treatment of extra studies and no homework I want to have piles of homework and live the normal high school life. And when the normal kids choose their classes they get what classes that they want. When I want I class it has to be verified by 3 different people: My parents, my consular, and my case manager. How do I fix this mess?

Is severe depression and demonetization in times of extended solitude a normal human response?

As an introvert myself, I know exactly how you feel... I have to be working toward something, or earning something and if I'm not I don't feel like doing anything at all because it's simply not worth it. I like to play guitar or make music or if it gets really bad just sleep in til 1 and answer questions on Yahoo! Answers or stupid **** like that all day. It will eventually pass, just find something to occupy yourself with in the meantime.

Good and boring activities to get me sleepy?

Going to bed before you're sleepy is pretty annoying. What are some good activities to help get me dozing? Ideal candidates would be productive, but not stimulating or stressful. I.e. let me work until I'm sleepy, but not keep me awake. I'm going to try giving the dishes a good scrub right now :-p

I want to quit my job but they wont let me. Is that legal?

That is not legal at all and they can not hold your pay if you quit. If they refuse to pay you you can sue.

Since almost every person on the planet agrees we need to love one another more, why do people make fun of, ..?

Because you do not need blind faith and irrationality to do so, thats why christians do not understand atheist

Did i have a seizure in my sleep?

Sounds more like narcolepsy to me. It's also called sleep paralysis. Google the terms and you will find all kinds of good info on it. I've had it for years. My wife learned that, while I'm sleeping, if I grunt, or make any stress sound she knows to touch me and that would bring me out of it. Good luck.

Is this a good prologue?

All that I see is a bunch of words stockpiled together. Clean it up. Its good, it really is, but all those words jumbled together make my head spin.

Sleep problems with 5 month old? ?

Oh how I know what you're going trough! My daughter is almost the same. I soldiered trough it and now at 10 months, things are getting better. Research Dc. Sears and Dc, Ferber, they have two opposite methods to putting babies to sleep, so if one doesn't work, the other might. I wish you the best and don't worry, things will get better, I promise!

I am at lost about my conflicting interests of careers and majors?

Just letting you know: Any major in humanities, English, or history will NOT give you access to a moderately large income bracket. Very far and few in between can conquer that game. It takes years to achieve that.

What can I do to put on weight and gain muscle?

My husband joined the Army weighing 108 and he's 5'6" now after Basic he weighs 130. (: and clearly none of that is fat.

Does she secretly wanna sabotage me?

I have been friends with this girl for almost a year. We got off really well. Shes nice and all. I treasure her friendship. Recently, we went on a road trip. I dozed off cos I was tired and sleepy. Towards the end of the journey, she showed me a video she took of me sleeping with my head bobbing about mouth opened. I laughed at it but I must admit that I felt a bit embarassed. Dont get me wrong. Im a good sport and make fun of myself sometimes. Today she showed me a photo she took of me getting up from a chair and it wasnt the most flattering photo of me. Again I laughed at it. She told me she wants to keep it for old times sake. I dont want to be paranoid but why is she doing this. Its shes constantly looking for my bad points and recording it.I hope Im not overreacting. But im still a bit hurt that she is doing this. Why not other people?

Is it true that Brown people (whether they are Latino or Middle Eastern) worship White people?

I think the word "worship" is a bit strong. It's more likely that in places like Latin America, where so many people live in poverty, if a young woman sees a white man who is obviously not from there, she might assume he is American and rich, and therefore a good catch. I have always noticed, though, that the "exotic foreigner" tends to be exceedingly popular wherever he or she goes because of simple curiosity.

Do you think her criticism is valid?

Someone once gave me advice: if 50% or more of your children are happy, then you're doing something amazing! In your case, he's a boy. I know grown men that run around in their underwear, have dirty faces and aren't always hungry at certain times. It's was an excitable time for him!

How to talk in a normal speed?

I get (what) all the time from people because I talk too fast or when I start to talk i start cutting thing out while am talking the reason why I feel like this beacuse if I talk slowly people will get bore and doze off in the conversation but if I talk fast they can't hear what am saying what should I do

What do you THINK.................OF THIS ( ** RAP**)?

I think it's good. And i bet when lil wayne thought of it he thought it was good too. i'm not too sure if your trying to claim this as your own or not so i'm not going to talk ****. good try though. :D

How to get stronger and gain muscle?

Squats, deadlifts bench press, overhead press and bent over rows (with dumbbells or barbells) also eat as much as possible, mainly protein! Everybody is different but those exercises will work every single muscle in your body. And pull ups and chin ups will help as well

37 weeks: Today i suddenly felt so tired and sleepy and just dozed off most of the day?

not that i have been energetic, but i was surely not this tired and sleepy, could this mean the baby will come out soon? i would be so glad if he did

Summarize the Galactic Federation of Light?

50 billion years ago a galactic tyrant named Xenu tied all his political enemies to volcanoes on Earth and blew them up with atom bombs. These "Thetans" are the cause of all of your anxieties about the future and for a nominal fee I can help you help me to get these Thetans out of you soul. Cut of all contact with your Uncle. He sounds a bit supressive.

I went to a concert and developed a red rash with bumps filled with fluid... what is it?

Hello, I'm a doctor. Use diphenhydramine. I think that you want to get more info about it. Please go to ----> http://nurseus64.notlong.com/AALEKxE

How do you get your newborn to sleep?

I'm so frustrated with trying to get my baby to sleep. He falls asleep in my arms but as soon as I put him down he is wide awake again. It seems to be a pretty common thing among newborns! My son does not like pacifiers so using one of those is not an option. I have tried using the swing but I don't want him to sleep in it while I'm asleep and he wakes right up when I try to move him into his bassinet. He doesn't sleep much during the day either so it seems like he would be really tired. He's not fussy or anything he just seems to be an extremely light sleeper. (maybe all newborns are like this?) I need some tips on how to get him to stay asleep once he dozes off. Co sleeping is not an option either since his dad is a pretty heavy sleeper and I worry he will roll over on him. I do sleep with the bassinet right next to me though!

18 hours of contractions then nothing?

I wouldn't worry in the meantime or at least try not to until your appointment early tomorrow. I've also researched that after a certain time past the due date, there aren't any benefits for the fetus. Good luck!

Who agrees with my theory about human potential and happiness? (Read below)?

I completely agree with you, i do that without even realising all the time, for me it's whenever something great happens to me, i have to find something bad about it, no matter how small, and blow it completely out of proportion and convince myself that because of that the whole experience was terrible.

What happened to Friday? the mayans were right!!?

last Thursday i came home from a long day of work, tore off my shirt and trousers, had some tuna casserole, then put on my will smith CD and dozed off. when i woke up it was Sunday!!! my question is what the heck happened to Friday???? is the 2012 apocalyps beggining early?? did friday get errased from existence by a black hole? dear baby jesus save us

Buying a horse from a distance: what is some advice?

In my personal opinion, I wouldn't buy a horse without seeing him multiple times or trying him for a week straight. You could take that chance and get him, but risk not really getting to know him. I know that you said you are going to see him, but one time isn't going to finalize it. On very rare ocassions does this actually work.

My about to turn 3 month old now has started crying when he wants to sleep!?

He used to just doze off, now he rubs his eyes and starts squirming around as if he is trying to fight with his sleep, he cries and sometimes yells, I always think he is hungry but I feed him and he just gets even more upset, until finally I rock him and pat his back until he is asleep! Any ideas on how to make him just go to sleep again or at least why the change??!!

Potty training my adult dog?

Ur schedule is fine.. When he/she messes in the house make sure he/she is well aware that ur mad. In a firm voice. Put the dogs face by it and tell him/her "NO, BAD GIRL/BOY" continue that and eventually he/she will learn.

Los Angeles Lakers should select Malcolm Lee?

This dude is a combo guard, but nowadays what PG isn't? I think Lee would strive in Brown's defensive system, and playing alongside one of the greatest to ever play the game won't hurt either.

How do I stay on task/subject when making a rap?

Dont make a song for the sake of a song, and dont write a bar to get closer to 16 bars. Write from the soul and rap from the stomach, literally. Thats why Pac is so good. Dont write her anything if it didnt come to you naturally.

I really just dont know what to do about this..?

When my boyfriend and I first started dating 5 months ago, he kind of cheated on me. He was talking to 2 other girls in sexual ways, sending them dirty pics, telling them he wanted to be with them, etc. It hurt really bad and he did everything he could to keep me. He threw his cell phone away and everything. Things have been pretty good for 5 months, ups and downs like all relationships are. Well he wanted to go over his friends house today without me... for the first time. I still have a bit of trust issues and he knows this but he was reassuring that he was just gonna play some video games and watch tv and stuff. I was worried of course but I couldnt stop him. He told me numerous times that he would be home around 5 so we could have dinner together and spend our night together. I was on the phone with my best friend when my boyfriend walked in the door at 8:00. I am so hurt and confused and honestly I am straight up mad. He walks in and doesnt say a word to me. Goes to the bathroom, changes into sweat pants and lays on the couch. Im on the phone another 20 mins and I get off and hes kinda dozing off. I go into the bedroom and lay down. He comes in 2 minutes later to pee again then he says 'I put a movie in and I am hitting play if ur interested in watching' and he walked outta the room. So I go out there and sit down and watch this movie. He says nothing to me, doesnt hold my hand (he always does when we watch tv), no kiss, nothing. The movie ends and he gets up and puts another one in. Not a word to me, not even looking at me. I go into the bedroom and lay down again. He comes in and says 'im making tator tots, want any?' (in such a monotone voice) I said no thanks. He walks out. What is going on?! I get no explanation, hes acting like he is so furious with me. My friend tells me that hes mad at me cause I am mad at him. Huh? I dont know what to do. I really don't want to talk to him... it will just end up in a fight which neither of us want. I dont even have anything to say to him, and the fact that hes mad at me just makes me even more furious and confused. I think I am just gonna go lay in bed and cry and go to sleep, but what am I suppose to do tomorrow. Knowing him, he will probably act like nothing even happened, I will never get an explanation, or he will still be mad at me. I just need some advice and I dont wanna hear 'break up with him', or that hes cheating on me or hes on drugs or any of that nonsense please. Im just hurting inside and I dunno what to do. Like I said... I really dont want to talk to him, I think he should be the one talking to me. WHats going on here? Thanks

Can you tell me some good stories or lessons to motivate me and benefit me?

read the bible buddy. especially the book of proverbs. its very motivational and has plenty of good advice to do better in life, not just spiritually but also generally in life.

Dreams the moment I fall asleep?

I generally feel sleepy a lot throughout the day. But however I noticed that as soon as I doze off while reading or doing something else (mostly during the day), I start dreaming immediately. Sometimes, I drift into sleep for a few seconds and even then I get dreams, which I can clearly remember upon waking up. Does this happen to others?

My 4 1/2 month old's sleeping schedule?

Ok, she takes maybe 2 naps a day, maybe an hour at the most... but she doesn't fall asleep until anytime around 1-2 maybe not even til 3:30 a.m. but she'll sleep on and off for 12 hours after that. So if she falls asleep at 2, she'll sleep until about 8am, wake up, eat, get a diaper change, and fall right back asleep until maybe 4 hours later, and wake up, eat, diaper change, and back to sleep and continue that for about 12 hours, so she doesn't wake up for good until around 3 in the afternoon, therefor her naps don't start until about 6, then another about 9, (give or take) We try to bathe her around 9 depending on what time she's napping, how can I get her on an earlier schedule? I don't want her to be real cranky from us having her stay awake longer, but if we have her get up earlier and go to bed earlier she'll probably have to wake for a feeding, like if we try to get her to go down at like 8-9 for the night she would probably wake up about 3 am because that's been 7 hours..... I don't know, any advise would be great, please! Thanks in advance!

Can you be fired for calling in sick 4 times in over a year?

I have been working as a courtesy clerk (bagger) at a grocery store for about a year and 2 or 3 months now. Recently, I called in sick for the fourth time ever. My manager told me that I call in too much and that its "always on shifts where she really needs me". She told me if I didn't show up or get the shift covered, she would take me off the schedule permanently. I wasn't able to get the shift covered, and felt too ill to go to work that day. I feel this is unreasonable as I am never late, have never had consecutive sick days, and am generally a good employee. Some of my friends who work with me used to call in about once or twice a month, have had no call, no shows, and are frequently late, yet they still have thier jobs and were getting more hours than I was while working there. My main question is if this seems reasonable, and if not, what should I do about it?

My girlfriend is dating my imaginary friend?

it's ruining our relationship. please tell me what to do, she strives waaay to much to be with my imaginary friend...

Phone Question! Please answer!?

Can a samsung strive have a signature like at the end of a text me message if they can tell me how to do it if they can't tell me why or just say they can't.. thanks!

Summarize the Galactic Federation of Light?

God forbid you should stay awake long enough to read those summarizations. What could they possibly tell you that a bunch of bored people on the internet can't?

Who has a stronger conflict than the man who strives to overcome himself?

A woman who strives to overcome herself while also battling HIV because some religious pricks told her lover not to use a condom and she can't do anything about it because she is expected to be submissive.

Do you agree that because we are under Grace instead of Law does not mean..?

As a Christian I know the cost of sin to my Saviour therefore I have no desire to live an unholy life, also because I am crucified with Christ sin no longer has the power over me that it used to. I now have the power through the Holy Spirit to live my life pleasing to Him.

Boss wants to cancel my scheduled vacation?

I just had surgery on my left dominant arm. My expected time off of work will be approx. 6 weeks. Today the surgeon said I will probably be able to return to work one week before my planned 2 week vacation. I called my boss to let him know I would be returning to work for a week before my vacation. My boss said I will need to cancel and then reschedule my vacation, even though my vacation had been approved for 2 months. I wanted to tell him that I had booked hotel rooms with another family and my kids and was going out of state for those two week to see relatives who I have not seen in years. I believe that he is a bit upset because he can not go on vacation until I return. Do you think he has the power to cancel my scheduled vacation and should I call Human resources to verify his claim? Will human resources side with him or me?

How to make my 4 month fall asleep earlier?

my four month old son has been staying up untill 3 in the morning!! he had his day in night confused untill 3 months! then he did ok i have a schedule bath 730 read a book turn lights down play softly nothing to rowdy and eat and he passed out. then all a sudden he stoped falling asleep after that last feeding and started staying up till midnight. and now he is staying up toill 3! he just finishes eating and looks at me and smiles! im going crazy! i wake him up at 8 and feed him and play and by 9 he is so grumpy and screaming. i put him back to sleep and he sleeps till noon. then wakes up eats and plays untill 2 takes a small 30 min nap wakes up eats and plays naps at 330 untill 430 wakes up plays till about 7. he is exclusivle breast feed and at night he sleeps 6hrs without waking. he refuses to eat if hes not hungry and he refuses to sleep if hes not tired. i have tried everything i can think of. any advise because i am really going crazy!

Why do religious people want to live?

This question has been lingering in my mind for some time. There are so many different religions, each describing an afterlife appropriate for the actions done in life for every person who has lived. There are many people who follow these teachings to the best of their abilities and believe that because of this they will go to a good place when they die. Yet despite the strong faith they have most of them would want to live as long as they can and fight with all their strength to avoid death and being murdered. Why is this so? Why do people who believe their existence will never be stopped view death as the ultimate end? Why do they fight to survive if they have earned an afterlife they claim to be much better than life is? I'm not encouraging suicide or murder as those are against the rules of most religions, but why strive to live if you are promised and have earned something better?

What would be a suggested major(or group of majors/minors)?

I'm currently a Biomedical Engineering Pre-med student at the University of Cincinnati, but I am looking for something better. I love biology as well as learning how things work (hence my decision currently on BME major). However, I just really don't feel like its for me. I don't have motivation to want to do it. Ultimately, I was striving to be a radiologist. As of right now, I am literally at wits end trying to find a major that I really will enjoy. I enjoy learning about what makes people tick so I looked into mixing Biomedicine with sociology/psychology. Does anyone have suggestions as far as a major I could look into and if not, maybe a job field instead that would help me?

Afraid I may be narcoleptic?

Self Diagnosis and treatment based on that is not worthwhile. You will have to borrow money to see a specialist, or get a job with benefits, wait out the benefit period, and then, seek treatment. Sleep problems are very common and there are many variables, e.g., stress, allergies, in your case substance abuse, caffein, inablity to relax, over stimulation in the evening. A specialist is able to sort through these and others and reach a diagnosis and treatment plan.

What do you think of my first diary entry ?

I wish I could be normal . I wish I didnt wory so much about every ******* thing in my life . I wish I didnt think about being skinny enough / pretty enought 99% of the time. My brain is so messed up and I dont think it will ever change. I dont feel like I ever fit in anywhere, not even in my own family . Sometimes I wish I hadnt failed at killing myself that one day , maybe I would be in another world ..and the pain would be over. Or maybe it wouldnt..who knows..nobody really knows what the ***** gonna hapen when we die , I dont see why the whole world is obsessed with this "God" . I mean I do see why actually , their scared , scared of whats gonna happen , scared of the mystery that death holds. Oh well , **** it...I just wanna be "happy" By that I guess I mean , happy with my body , happy with my friends, happy with ...life....parents..family...school..w.e… everything . Idk , I guess I chose to be unhappy , but at the same time I didnt. Idk , Im so confused , half the time I dont even know wtf I want , or wtf Im saying , or why the **** I do the things I do , or why I curse so much , or why I act like a fool sometimes ..just because Im bored . Maybe Im just always use to getting negative attention and thats what I strive for. ..Whatever...I just wish my mom and I wouldnt hate each other..I mean I dont hate her..I just ...resent her sometimes...because of the way she acts..and the things she says...and ...just...the way she is I guess...I wish we had gotten along better all these years..I feel like I dont have a mom anymore , like I lost her , or she lost me..or I lost myself along the way ..who knows...I just wish things where different....I wish I didnt crave drugs when I feel uncomfortable or when Im just sad or mad...I wish I had more control ...I wish I didnt have sex with 25 guys...or more...I think Ive lost count...I wish I didnt have HPV and whatever else I have now , which I probably do have soemthing else..I wish my hormones werent unbalanced & I didnt have Polysistic ovaries syndrome....I wish my acne wasnt so bad...And I wish I didnt have so much cellulite..I wish I didnt eat so much when Im stressed..And I wish I could just lose weight and stop ******* up so much...I wish I wasnt so selfish...My life is a piece of cake compared to so many other people...but I just take it all for granted..I wish I knew how to change ...how to have self esteem...I wish my brothers didnt hate me...I mean I know my drug abuse ruined alot of things and alot of relationships and I didnt really notice until now....and I dont know how to fix it ...Some things are just better left broken I think....I feel like ...College isnt for me ...Like ...Im not gonna make it...like...Im just not cut out for it ... I feel like Im stupid now...like ...my brain just isnt the same it was when I was younger...who knows...All I know is ...I want to live life day by day ,...I dont wanna worry about the future or the past anymore...I just wanna worry about right now and today ...not about the guys that broke my heart...or the guys that just call me when they need their quick fix....I dont wanna worry about what everyone is saying behind my back.. Idont wanna worry about going out at night because Im scared I'll start drinking and get out of control...I dont wanna worry about my clothes not fitting me anymore because Ive been binging like crazy for weeks...I dont wanna worry about not being good enough for a guy to fall in love with me or never acting the right way for that to ever happen...I dont wanna worry about meeting guys because Im scared I'll give my most prized possesion up again...like I did the last time ..and the last time ...and the last time...I hate it ..I hate feeling used ..I hate how I dont respect myself...I hate how I have no self esteem...I hte how I wanna change things so much and I still havent ...but I like how at least Im writing this...and Im getting it out ...and maybe its time to do this more often so I can evaluate myself...because In the end the only person that can help me is ME ...and the person that can change me is ME...

I think I am having seizures, not sure, help?

Okay this started a few months back, and continues to this day. Every so often, I get really sleepy, so I lay down, but I'm not asleep yet, once I'm closing my eyes trying to get to sleep, I can't move at all this lasts about a minute or so. And sometimes I am able to move my toes to signify family around me that something is going on with me. And other times, like today I was trying to rest then I opened my eyes and they were rapidly moving back and forth and then my head just fell to the side with my eyes open and I couldn't move or blink. I don't know if these are seizures but it only happens when I'm dozing off...someone please explain to me what's going on :(

How do you cope with controlling/type A friends?

This is like part 2 of a question I already posted. But I have a friend who has these ridiculously high expectations on herself. She works full time, goes to grad school, her husband is some time of high level teacher at a middle school, she has two kids and has a major social life. She makes sure she goes to just about everything she is invited to, plus throws a lot of parties of her own. I do my best not to put excess pressure on myself and strive for balance. But her expectations stress me out. I get the impression she expects me to be like her and that she gets unhappy with me every time I dissapoint that expectation. When she wants to plan something with me, she calls the shots, and if I want her to change her plans and compromise she won't budge and just gets mad at me. Ugh this is a frustrating friendship, so how do you cope in that type of situation? The reason we became friends is because we worked together, we have mutual friends, and we are both devoted Christians...

What to do about holiday vacation coverage for a coworker?

Speak with the supervisor and tell him/her that you agreed to work the complete 3 day holiday schedule since it entailed overtime and that your co worker shouldn't be allowed to make last minute changes after you have already made plans.

Any idea what might be wrong with me?

For 2 weeks now I have noticed there's something weird going on with me. Every day between 5-7 pm I get insanely exhausted for no particular reason, no matter how good of a mood I'm in or where I am at that time. Then my head gets dizzy and I have to go lay down. I doze off for around 15-30 minutes and wake up again. I then feel like I'm about to vomit but never do. After another 15-30 minutes it stops and I'm fresh as a daisy again. Normally I'd say it's due to the lack of sleep, but I get enough sleep. 7-9 hours is usually the suggested amount of sleep people my age should get and I always do. Another guess is that I exhaust myself during the day but I don't do a whole lot, so that can't possibly be it. Last guess would be that it's what I'm eating but I've been eating the same kinds of meals for years now and it has never happened to me before. Any guesses anyone? Think I should go see my family doctor about this?

Need help with being an adhd teen and parents?

Aww. Hun, my boyfriend has adhd. I understand. That's exactly how he is and let me tell you, it doesn't get better with age. The only way it gets better is if you take meds for the adhd or if you go to therapy or even just find someone you can talk to without feeling pressured or judged. My boyfriend has had a dramatic difference in the past year since talking to me and feeling accepted. The reason why he doesn't take meds is because he does not have health insurance so it could end up being a lot of money. Adhd people often are smart also, under that concentration problem. You just need a person to explain things to you in a certain way. Maybe two or three different ways. I'll admit, it can be frustrating for the people you love if you don't "get it" right away, but if they really truly love you, they'll sacrifice. It's really not a big deal. Did you try explaining to your parents that you have a concentration disability? If they still do not listen, you can always talk to a school counselor. I hope it works out for you! :)

Am i gonna start having withdrawal effects from taking my antidepressant too late?

im supposed to take it right before bed time (which is 10 pm), but i just started taking seroquel xr a few days ago and it made me doze off and my phones alarm didnt go off, so i just woke up and its like 5 am and i just took it.

Can someone please give me some feedback on my poem?

It's good, but take the capital letters out of the middle of the verses (at the beginning is fine) and split it into stanzas.

Should I get the samsung strive or the lg neon touch screen?

4 days ago I was walking home from soccer practice and it started to rain and my phone got all wet. now my cellphone doesn't work. I had at&t samsung strive. I'm getting a new phone in about a week and I can't decide which phone I should get. They are both slider phones too. I thought about getting the samsung strive again or the lg neon touch screen.

Clubbing solo in Vancouver?

Hey everyone, I'm a 19 year old guy here as of May, (sorry for the pour-outs here haha) and probably because I used to be a pretty quiet dude, I've been really interested in going out to bars and clubs lately. I've been to a few places with friends whenever they've wanted to go but lots of my friends or acquantances are still 18. And the ones that are old enough don't always have the same desire to go out. So, does anyone have any experience in clubbing solo, is it in anyway acceptable? What are some suggestions? I just want to make the most out of the summer and have some good times before the fall starts where I will really have to put a ton of focus on a hectic college schedule. I'm about average as far as looks and personallity go so should I give it a try next time I can't find anyone to come out with me?

Need workout/food schedule?

So I'm going to go hiking the grand canyon in a month or two. So I need intense cardio workouts and whatever will help me get though hiking it. I also need a list of food that will be helpful while I will be exercising everyday. Tips will also be helpful. & I know I should have been working out since I knew I was going to go on this hike...;(

Tips for middle school girl?

Okay I'm using my sister's account right now.Anyways I'm going to be in 6th grade and I need some tips.My school doesn't have gym clothes and we don't get to change so how can I smell normal once I get out of P.E..the school hasn't sent me a schedule yet so don't we my classes are.I also don't get a locker until 7th grade because they are remodeling them.Thanks in advance

3 week old baby staying up for long periods of time. Is this normal?

My 3 week old baby started off the first week just sleeping and waking up to eat and going right back to sleep. She would wake up 2x during the night to be fed and was able to sleep for about 3 hours straight. The past 2 weeks her night sleeping has not changed though she eats much more now. When she gets up around 8-9 a.m. I stay up for the rest of the day and she is fed, burped and changed. Nothing will put her back to sleep though and she is up for sometimes 5 hours straight usually it's at least 4 hours. During this time I will give her a bath, feed her if she seems hungry, put her on my chest, rock her, bounce her, you name it and usually she will doze off a little when sleeping on me but as soon as a put her down she will sleep for about 10 minutes then wake up crying. During this time period I can get nothing done and have to literally just lay in bed trying to get her to fall back asleep. After about 4-5 hours she will finally fall asleep and sometimes sleep close to 4 1/2 hours and at night she is fine. Is it normal for her to be up this long? Any ways to get her to fall asleep after she wakes up in the morning?

I did not get a period this month but definitely not pregnant, is everything okay?

i did not get my period this month and i usually run on schedule. i had all the symptoms and pms but no period. there is no possible way for me to be pregnant but i don't know whats wrong.

Interview and working at Culver's?

A Culver's fast food location is opening soon and I already applied. They called me for an interview and I went. I believe it went very well. I spoke with one man and he asked me all of the basic interview questions. He even told me he liked me and I would be perfect to work the front end. He told me out of 300+ applicants that I was in the top 100 to be interviewed. Then he sent me to another man that talked to me about training and the opening date. He told me out of the 100 interviewed that 50-60 will be hired. He said training starts in a couple weeks and the opening date is August 1, 2011. He said he will "definitely give me a call in about a week" My interview was on saturday so I'm waiting for this weekend to come to see if they are going to hire me. Does it sound like they want me? If they do call me, will I have to have a 2nd interview? How was your interviewing experience there? I also want to know about other peoples experiences getting hired at Culver's and what they thought about Culvers? Pros and cons? Are they flexible with schedules? because I will be a full time college student by time they open. Do you recommend working there? I'm really hoping I get hired, this will be my first job other than volunteer work. Any information you can give me about it will be great! Thanks!

Should I quit my job?

I've been working at a local fast food shop for about 4 years now and I am the assistant manager, yet I only get paid $8.75 an hour for being their 4 years, the best worker, and finally the assistant manager. I decided to apply for another job. I got two job offers one for Starbucks which I am really excited about, I have heard many great things and the other for Sears which seems good. I start my training for both next week. I wouldn't mind working two jobs just curious as to if I should just now put in my two weeks notice at the fast food place (Positive: pick my own schedule, guarenteed job/ Negative: manager doesn't value me as a worker and doesn't know how to handle the business.) or stay there until I know I like the Starbucks and/or Sears job? THANK YOU !

What do you think of my friends lyrics?

nawww he is just matching the last to words ... rap is about more then that.... this is like a poem ........ im not a hater ... i dont really like rap tho its kinda wack

I just got hit by a baseball on the side of my head not too hard about an hour and a half ago?

Rest it off for now. I would relax, put a cold compress on your head and take an advil. but dont go back to sleep for a few hours. If the pain continues make your parents aware and goto the hospital

Should I learn to play guitar or Martial Arts?

I have always loved the way the guitar sounds and have always been interested in it. Im just wondering if I should learn martial arts since people in the past say I would be a great fighter. Plus I love fighting, its a great way to stay in shape and relieve stress. I just don't know because I want to do both. The problem with that though is that my schedule already pretty full and can only fit in one. I asked my parents but they just say "Do whatever one that will make you happy." Which is nice of them but not helpful. So will someone help please?

College Students: Where do you work?

I'm currently a senior in college and trying to find a new job that works around my college schedule. I am in school all day on Mondays and Wednesdays and trying to find something where I can work the other days, I have been applying at banks and for internships. So, college students, where do you work?

As a Capricorn, how can I learn to accept criticism?

Accept criticism as a way to improve, not that someone is saying you were wrong or did bad. Try not to take anything people say too harshly, and just think good about yourself in general. Have confidence.

Is my house haunted? ( no mean answers please )?

every house ive moved into or even if i just go to someones house something freaky always happens. but this is the worse. the first few nights i was dozing off. then my eyes flew open and i saw these HUGE hands coming for my face. i sat up and almost cried. then i was at my friends house and my mom called me saying the icebox started pouring out ice and then stopped. she didnt think anything of it though. and one day my closet door was open so i close it and start watchin tv. a minute later it flys open! so i call my mom in the room. she closes it and WATCHES it fly open! i was at school and when i came home my mom said she was sitting outside then the door opens. Not windy or ANYTHING so im not crazy or going crazy. please no mean answers.

Someone please help me. I am afraid, and don't know where to turn.?

Well, for starters, always be the bigger person. Don't be rude or yell at the people who are mentioned above and always say please and thank you. Maybe they'll feel sympathy for a polite old lady and decide to not force all of the money out of you at once.

Is the July 8th shuttle launch at Kennedy Space Center the last one?

It's been on the news that it's the last one but if you look at NASA's website they have a few more scheduled this year. So are they doing the rest?

Are these signs that she likes me? Should I try talking to her?

Ok, so there's this really REALLY pretty girl I see in the hallways throughout the day, and I've had a crush on her for a really long time, about 7 months. I've never had a girlfriend before, because I've never been sure a girl has liked me back. But this girl, I'm sure does, it's just a gut feeling. I actually have female friends, and they all say I'm really funny, so I'm sure I'll get along with this girl. Anyways, she does show me a lot of signs. For one, our eyes usually meet when I see her. One time her and her friend kept turning around and looking at me, I'm pretty sure she was saying something along the lines of "omg that's him, he's cute huh?". Another time, I saw her keep glancing over at me on her way to her class, then before she opened the door, she turned around, looked at me, then walked in. She smiled at me once too, but I didn't smile back because I wasn't sure if it was intended at me, and I was kind of dozing off, so I just kept eye contact with her. I was at my locker one morning, and her and her friend walked by. When she walked by, she walked REALLY close to me. I was waiting for my friend at his locker one day, and from the corner of my eye, I saw her and her friend walk by. After they passed by me, me and my friend started walking, then I saw her turn around and look at me. I saw her on her way to her class a few days ago, and right before she opened the door, she turned around, looked at me, then walked in. Today, I saw her leaving that class, and when she walked out, I turned to my side and our eyes met. After a second or two, I looked away. After that, I heard giggling (there were some other girls walking with her), and I think it was them. Girls, do you think she likes me? I really want to get to know her , so I'm probably gonna approach her tomorrow, I just need some encouragement.

Cant think of the name of this movie!!?

Well its an old cheesy kind of movie made in late 90s, its a movie I watched as a kid, its about these kids parents leave and they have a party, then they start driving and they doze off and wake up in the 1800s, and its like a wild wild west kind of town and everybody there is a ghost or dead and they spit out green slime, and the whole movie is these kids trying to get there way out of this town. Remember this movie wasnt a huge box office kind of movie, its like a cheep one.

My Dad punishes me all the time for little things, but he does things a lot worse! What should I do?

I'm sixteen, and am always getting punished for my attitude. Snide little comments under my breath & stuff, you know how it is. I strive for self control & I never lash out or curse, but comments like that sometime slip out, but its always very settle. One the other hand,when my Dad gets mad, he swears like an R rated movie and breaks stuff, spills coffee...that sorta thing. Yet, he's always punishing me for what I do. If I did what he did....well I'd get punished for life. The social structure of families just doesn't seem fair sometimes. He demands respect, but how can I give it to him when he acts like that?

Bank changing their mind a week before closing?

Option # 1 Try another lender Option#2 Put a larger down payment on the property. Option# 3 Sell the house you are now living in and ask in-laws to hold this house for you Option #4 Forget the whole thing and stay where you are(in the wedding gift).

Rate this story so far?

Well, the story I would rate it at 6.5/10. It's mediocre at best and it is bland. This type of story has been told countless times with a few minor twist, but nonetheless the same. On the other hand, its probably the story that you are going for. I need something to compare it with in order to make a more precise rating. In any case, you really need to check your grammar mechanics. Keep up the good work.

WWhy do I act like this?

I'm a 15 year old girl. I have difficulty maintaining and shifting focus, I get EASILY distracted, I'm very disorganized, like I clean my room and the next day it's a mess again.. I'm not even over exaggerating. I'm very forgetful, I have a hard time just sitting still and doing my homework or staying concentrated on it, I'm constantly fidgeting and shaking my leg non stop, I day dream ALOT, it takes me a while to process information, like when someone explains me something, they have to repeat 3 times for me to understand what they said, I interrupt alot or sometimes don't realize what I said was hurtful, I have a short temper and over react A LOT! A lot of people call me lazy, stupid, and other labels. Also the guy I'm inlove with speaks to me and I never pay attention to what he says even though I try, so I then have to ask my friend what he said, who's part of conversation. I always doze out. What could this mean?

Are full body workouts as good for builing muscle as haveing a schedule?

like when people do triceps nd the next day tricep nd the next day core to get bigger muscle isn"t it better to just do a full body workout and not workout till the day after?

Do Christians fear freedom?

"So long as man remains free he strives for nothing so incessantly and so painfully as to find someone to worship."

What should i do about football practice?

Ive never played football , practice is today @ community college from 4-6PM . The problem is i work 5-8PM.. Today... The i asked the manager to change my schedule tuesdays,wednesdays, & thursdays bc those days football practice is from 4-6pm... Unfortunately the manager did not do anything to help me out. So im wondering if i should call in sick to work & go to practice and have a few words with the coach, and explain to him my situation?

I have a problem with a co worker, what should I do?

I don't get along very well with the shift supervisor, and she hardly ever schedules me. We had a new shift supervisor this month but it was only for a few weeks, and she gave me three shifts a week, sometimes four. but now we're back to the old one, and I hardly get any at all. I am very unhappy about this. what should I tell my manager?

Do you think I have ADD/ADHD (reeaallllyy long detailed question)?

just by the length of your post....YES, you have ADD. You should be able to ask this "question" in about 4 - 5 sentences. Instead, you wrote a short story. lol ;)

If my period is not normal could I be pregnant with these other symptoms?

You could very well be pregnant. Before I found out I was my period came early and was very very very light in amount and was barely there. Some say I had implantation bleeding but what difference does it make? It still was abnormal to me lol. Just test 2-3 wks after your missed/abnormal period and that should give you your most accurate results that you are looking for... Lots of baby dust to you! (:

When should i get my SAT prep book?

im going to be a junior in august 2011 and i am wondering is this summer to early to get a SAT prep book? i really want to get into medical school so im striving for the best. my freshman year and sophomore year wasn't very good so i want to pick up this upcoming school year>

Yeast infection cream? (women)?

i have a yeast infection and i have been using the monistat 7 day treatment. the cream type. im on my 2nd day. after i put it in i lie down. for usually about 10 minutes like the instructions say. but once ive done that when i get up and walk or sit up on my bed the cream still comes out. how long should i lie down? is the cream supposed to harden inside of you or something? im going to start putting it right before i doze off to sleep but i just applied some and i wanna clean my room and get up cuz my back is hurtin from laying on it. please answer my questions above.

Will South Africa and Botswana treasure there visit from the first lady her 2 daughters and mother forever?

president obama was not able to visit those 2 southern african nations with large Christian populations due to scheduling

I need hints/help tpo get my 10 week old to nap in her cot during the day? HELP.?

Hi, Since I brought my daughter home from the hospital I had always let her nap in her bouncer in the lounge with me. But now at 10weeks old she is getting bigger and bigger and soon she wont be able to nap in there she's already gone from 2-4hour naps to 5min naps and becoming really overtired and upset. So I have decided to start her napping in her cot although no matter how hard I try she wont stay asleep! At night all I do is stick her in her cot wide awake with her music on and she puts herself to sleep but I have been attempting to get her down for 2 hours and it has all ended up with her back in the bouncer lol. She started to doze off a few times but always ended up awake. What can I do!!! when she cried an emotional cry (with tears and honestly upset, as opposed to a protest cry) I would pick her up and comfort her and put her back... and she would usually sleep after that but not for long help?

I want to devote my life to God and helping others around the world.?

Stay home. There are thousands of unfortunates in your own country who need all the help they can get. Running off to exotic lands is selfish and counter-productive.

Culver's experience and interview?

A Culver's fast food location is opening soon and I already applied. They called me for an interview and I went. I believe it went very well. I spoke with one man and he asked me all of the basic interview questions. He even told me he liked me and I would be perfect to work the front end. He told me out of 300+ applicants that I was in the top 100 to be interviewed. Then he sent me to another man that talked to me about training and the opening date. He told me out of the 100 interviewed that 50-60 will be hired. He said training starts in a couple weeks and the opening date is August 1, 2011. He said he will "definitely give me a call in about a week" My interview was on saturday so I'm waiting for this weekend to come to see if they are going to hire me. Does it sound like they want me? If they do call me, will I have to have a 2nd interview? How was your interviewing experience there? I also want to know about other peoples experiences getting hired at Culver's and what they thought about Culvers? Pros and cons? Are they flexible with schedules? because I will be a full time college student by time they open. Do you recommend working there? I'm really hoping I get hired, this will be my first job other than volunteer work. Any information you can give me about it will be great! Thanks!

Certificate of citizenship application......?

i applied my daughter last nov 26,2010,she had her personal interview MAY 16,but until now she doesnt have a schedule for oathtaking.....how much longer are we going to wait.....anybody who have the same experience on this?

Where can i find the best case for samsung strive?

i bought a pink hard rubber case off of amazon about six months ago. it lasted for about two weeks. during those two weeks though, it began shattering (as in, i would look down at pieces of the rubber would have fallen off). my mom has an otterbox for her blackberry torch and its amazing. unfortunately however, otterbox does not make a case for my style phone. :( i just need a good case (i would like it to be silicone so that it won't break) thanks!

At what time do the swimming pools in Edinburg open on Tuesdays?

I really haven't done anything fun all this summer. ): i would also like to know the schedule please ? I wanna go with some friends. (:

Why do some people accuse men who seek equal rights of being misogynists?

Well like the mainstream feminist factions the mra too have been pirated by hate mongers but it is more PC to run down a men's advocacy group so more public scrutiny is heaped on the MRA but that not say that feminist don't get trashed also. Really what I am saying is both MRA and feminists do a piss poor job policing the leadership of their respective movements so the good of each get lumped in with the visible and outspokenly hateful.

My dog peeing in the middle of the night? Please help!?

my dog did this and i felt the same way about the crate thing but the crate training completely fixed my dog of that

PLEASE HELP ME!!!!daughter with asd and ps?

I have a six month old daughter who has asd- atrial septal defect and ps pulmonary stenosis. she was born with both heart defects. she is scheduled to have a heart cath on july 8 of this year. What can i expect after her heart cath???? S he is now retaining fluid in her feet and they are swollen. Do i need to take her for another check up or just wait until her surgery??? im so scared and worried about my baby now at this point.

I Feel I Been Trapped Into Being A Father!?

Well long story short me and a girl were highly intoxicated and we had sex. Poor decision I know. And I felt very pushed into it. 2 weeks later she says shes pregnant. Not sure if thats even possible. I find out she already has 4 kids and is still married. I told her it was a poor decision for both of us and that either she should get an abortion or put it up for adoption. I am not able to financially support a child right now and can't be a good father to this child and that I want to have a kid with someone I am married 2 and raise a kid the right way and not like this. I asked her if she was on birth control and she said yes and that the day we had sex she forgot to take her pill that day so she doubled up the next day. Not a very bright girl if she is to do something like that, there is a morning after pill you could take as well. I haven't a clue who shes been with previous to me and know very little about her. Yes I know shame on me, but everyone makes mistakes. She strung me along for several months saying she was going to get an abortion but when the day came to go and do it, she wouldn't show up. She told me she understands I am not ready to be a father and that I am not financially stable for a child right now and that I will never hear from her again and if I change my mind to give her a call. Few weeks ago I got served court papers her claiming the baby is mine, I am now scheduled to take a DNA test and I pray that its not mine. She wants full custody and child support. Clearly all she want's is money, which I have very little of and my job is not looking very promising. I don't understand why she is doing this to me and why she would lead me on like she did, lie to me about being divorced, and then come after me. I am now spending thousands that I dont have on lawyer fees and DNA testing etc. I feel as if someone has just taken all my dreams in life and shattered them. I have been very depressed over this for months now, and can't believe there is people out there like this. I am afraid to hear some of the answers, but I would like your opinion on this matter, and I am sure you people will say dont have sex then, yes I know, this was very uncharatierstic of me to do, and I dont believe a child should have been conceived like this.

Fell Asleep During Sex?

I did that once but I was drunk out of my mind so if he was drunk don't be to hard on him I'm sure he's embarrassed cuz I know i was

How can i keep my newborn from falling asleep while breastfeeding?

He's a newborn, that's what newborns do. His eating and sleeping patterns will change week by week, just be patient. There's nothing wrong with him dozing off while he nurses, it just means he's relaxed and comfortable.

Using mainly books 1-5 of they odyssey what strives the charaters to meet thier goal?

They want to overcome all of their struggles, but they've been gone for years, so their will to come home is strong. (:

I want to restart playing guitar, but don't know how... Any tips?

I played electro guitar for about 3 years... I stopped playing a year ago due to a bust schedule... Now I want to restart playing but every time I get it to my hand I am very frustrated that I cant play as good I was, and although I know I need to start practicing simple stuff, and then advance like before, I get really bored because of being repeating myself. How can I tackle this problem? Also I would love suggestions of songs in different levels, which I could play as I start advancing again, I don't want to replay the old songs I knew...

What time does/did your 3 month old go to bed at night?

Only you can answer your question. Ask yourself are you and your baby happy with the routine you have? If the both of you are then you have no problem. Also as you have your baby in a routine now it will be harder to change it. Hope this helps

Important Highschool Question..?

I'm going into Francis Lewis HS this September as a freshman in NY. I got an acceptance to Math and Science Research Program. Is that good? Also, what is the schedule? Can i take other classes? Is the school good?

How can i win my unemployment appeal?

I was suppose to do overtime starting 4 hours before my scheduled shift but didn't come in to work until my regular shift. The HR manager told me it was a write up as usual, clocked in,worked 45 minutes and then was told I was terminated. Before clocking out she changed her mind and said I was suspended, then she called two days later saying I was fired again. The company is appealing my unemployment stating I was given a tardy and that was my final tardy. In the company handbook it states when u don't do overtime it is a write up and you have to refuse 3 times before terminated and that was my 1st. How can I win?

Why do I act like this?

I'm a 15 year old girl. I have difficulty maintaining and shifting focus, I get EASILY distracted, I'm very disorganized, like I clean my room and the next day it's a mess again.. I'm not even over exaggerating. I'm very forgetful, I have a hard time just sitting still and doing my homework or staying concentrated on it, I'm constantly fidgeting and shaking my leg non stop, I day dream ALOT, it takes me a while to process information, like when someone explains me something, they have to repeat 3 times for me to understand what they said, I interrupt alot or sometimes don't realize what I said was hurtful, I have a short temper and over react A LOT! A lot of people call me lazy, stupid, and other labels. Also the guy I'm inlove with speaks to me and I never pay attention to what he says even though I try, so I then have to ask my friend what he said, who's part of conversation. I always doze out. What could this mean?

What do I do about my first pay check from my job (franchise McDonalds)?

The guide is a general rule book but all franchisees do not follow it to the letter. Call your supervisor and clarify how your store handles the payroll.

How do i put a time out on our wireless router? It's d-link DIR-655.?

Now that it's Summer, my teenage boys are playing Xbox all night and sleep all day. I can't make them do anything during the day. I need to turn off the internet at night but without physically doing it. Is there a way that I can schedule a timer for our router? Thanks.

I am 13 and need to loose weight?

So my BMI is 18.009, and even though its in range by the looks of me I am not. I am 114 pounds, and 5'7". I have pudgy thighs and my belly's coming out a little. I don't know why but when summer comes I am eating more when i want to eat less. I don't know what to do I have tried workouts but my schedule gets in the way. What do I do?

Contractions with hot flashes every twenty minutes?

About four days ago I starting having contractions every now and then but with each day they become more constant and closer together I also get them with terrible hot flashes and my heart pounds hard and fast with a few. But today has been the worst so far im 36 weeks now now and I am also having these weird feelings like I want to cry with flu like symptoms the past few days also. Everything is just getting so weird and I didn't feel any of this with my first cause she was breach so she was a scheduled c-section. Im so new to all this and I just need some advice. Will it be soon I called my doctor this morning but she only said to wait and call when they were closer but she never said if it would be soon or not but she said to relax and it could be around the corner.

How often should I work out?

I've been using the Nike Training Club app on my ipod and i'm loving it. I worked out on Sunday for 30 minutes and then again yesterday for an hour. Should I continue to work out today, tomorrow, thursday, and friday and then chill on the weekends? Whats the best way to set this schedule up?

Working with a green horse?

I have a quarter horse gelding. He is a little older than 10 and I was the first one to do anything with him. He strives to learn and does so quickly, but he gets easily bored with just doing groundwork and walking in circles or around poles. I have had him for three years and I have been riding him. He does a great job especially when on the trails. I have not started changing gaits yet, though. A few times we got into a trot, but i did not cue him into it, and he got skittish when I asked him to walk again. So I would just like to know how exactly I should introduce him to trotting/loping/galloping with a rider on his back. Thanks

Ferber (cry it out) vs. Sears (attached parenting) for a baby?

First time mom or not, you still have instincts. What do you feel would be the best method for her? Nobody here can tell you the best way to get your baby to sleep, but they can tell you the best way to get their baby to sleep. When my daughter was 5 months old, we did a version of the cry it out. When she would wake up at night, I was in the habit of just getting up and feeding her. Well, I went back to nights and my husband was at home with her. He was much slower to respond to her crying out. Sometimes by the time he got to her (5 minutes tops) she would already be back asleep. If she wasn't, he would give her a paci. If she spit it out and still cried, she got a bottle. Rocking the baby all night wasn't in the cards for us either. On a side note, have you ever thought about getting her checked by a chiropractor? I never believed in them until after I had my baby and could barely walk because my spine was so misaligned from the epidural. I had a close friend that I referred to the chiro because her baby had terrible reflux and it completely got rid of the reflux. Just a thought.

Thinking about quiting this job and moving to another job ?

Hey I've been working for dunkins for about a week. Now the reason I say I want to quit this job is bc I've found numerous oppertunities for retail (footlocker, and radioshack) i've spoken to the manager of Footlocker already and he said he'll call tmorrow to schedule an interview during the week and with radioshack a few ppl left and they are looking for 2 FT positions and one pt positions. How should I go about doing this ? HELP HELP HELP!!!!

Did i ruin my chances of getting into a decent college?

I just finished my juinior year. Now i know colleges look at sophomore and junior year but they look at the junior year the most. Ok so for my sophomore year, the first semester i got 3.5 and another 3.5. For second semester, i got a 2.8 and 3.0. Junior year, for the first semester i got a 3.7 and 3.7 and for second semester i got a 2.6 and i think this time is 2.7. I wanna go to either saginaw valley state university and ferris state university. Did i really ruin my chances of getting into to those colleges or any college? If i really strive myself my senior year will my chances go back up? I feel really bad for slacking and possibly ruining my future. Help please.

What would you think of this?

I guess so, if she sent something to you 1 am, she really likes you (you're also not going to sent something like this to someone you don't really like at 1 pm, would you?)

Ugh please help me out with one homework quesiton!!!?

I really don't know for sure but since no one else has helped I'll try. I would answer c Friday or Saturday simply because people are too busy through the week to thumb through catalogs and it may get tossed with the rest of the junk mail they are too busy to go through.

My baby is not drinking enough milk. pls help?

my baby is sleeping as soon as offer her my breast. it wont take more than 10 minutes usually. i tried to make her sleepy by rocking her, and it sometimes take an hour or half an hour for her to fall asleep. but when i offer her my breast she would doze off within 10 minutes. i tried to wake her but she wont wake up. and im worried if she is taking enough milk. but if she is not sleeping she gets hungry really soon, sometimes within half an hour. so should i wake her within every half an hour while she is sleeping? and is it a problem that she is sleeping like that? she is now 2 months old and urinates more than 6 times and is gaining weight. but still im worried. please help

Pregnancy insomnia? Anyone else have this?

I had the same problem with my second child, I was exhausted too, I would lay on the floor by my daughter's crib, and could sleep thru the day and as soon as night hit, boom, I was awake, it passed when I hit 22 weeks, I tried warm bathes, long walks, and milk, but, for some reason, it passed, it seems like forever but it will pass. Congratulations, don't nap thru the day, it make it worse.

Why is it that I don�t care about almost nothing anymore?

first off you do care otherwise you wouldn't be asking this question, second, at least YOU try things, most people are cowards and never find things out. have you ever heard the expression it wasn't meant to be? most of the time its true, how many times have you tried something and found out it went straight south and you said glad i never did that? lol the thing that keeps telling you to move on is that core that you have built inside yourself from failing, failing all those time wasn't necessarily a bad thing, it was a good thing. you are just going through life figuring out what you like and don't like and what you can and cant do, you need to go back and figure out what was the pros and cons and piece them together and then use them to be successful on the next thing you try, your to hard on yourself because you feel like your getting older and running out of time, but here's the good news you have plenty of it. and who cares what people say, i would rather fall on my face 100 times and learn along the way rather than everything be easy or handed to me, don't worry drama and gossip are like reality t.v. shows they all fade away, how do i know im 25 and just started being successful after failing hundreds of times good luck hope this helped :)

Is it normal to want to act like a housewife?

Hi, so me and my boyfriend moved in recently and we live in a nice cozy little apartment :))). I love it, me and my BF are bonding so much more now that we live together. The thing is, I do all the household chores, but I'm not complaining, I actually like doing them. I cook all the food, do all the laundry, vacuum and clean the place, get the groceries, clean all the dishes etc etc. I actually enjoy it, it keeps me occupied when I'm waiting for my BF to get back from work cuz we have different work schedules. Some of my friends say that I give him too much freedom from household chores but I don't see anything wrong with it. He'd do the work if I asked him too, I just prefer to do it. Sometimes I pretend like we're married, and have kids and I'm just getting the place ready and cooking for my children and hubby who comes home tired and hungry from work, even though I'm only in college lol :3. Is this a normal thing to do?

Do you think I am pregnant?

my girlfriend is doing everything like you and is going to the doctor tomorrow so i would advise you to do the same

Question about ADD and ADHD?

I am a 19 year old college student and all my life I have been having a hard time concentrating in school. I dropped out of high school because I could never pay attention in class. Now in my second semester in college i feel as if it is all going to be a repeat soon. When I read i start dozing off and day dreaming about something or when taking finals I stop and think about other things. When professors are talking I pay not attention because it is so hard. I failed my last final because I could not concentrate throughout the whole thing. It takes me an hour just to start my homework and when actually doing it, it take me forever just to complete it because I am constant stopping. Now one doctor told me I am to old to be medicated on aderall, is this true? I have always felt like I have had add or adhd either or all my life but I was just a quiet kid that never spoke up.

Skinny/Fat stereotypes?

I just don't understand. I have been skinny all my life, always will be (hopefully at least). But it really does get old when people are always like, "Dang, your really skinny" "Are you sure you eat" and things like that. It gets old quickly. I know MOST people strive to be skinny (not hating on overweight people or saying everyone wants to be skinny just saying), but how would people like if I just went up to them and said "Dang, your really fat". Doesn't have the same connotation huh? I don't know, I mean I like being skinny and all and would like to put on some weight, but really, don't talk about how skinny I am and I won't point out your fat. Thanks

Should I expect my husband to be more supportive?

My husband and I are having our second child soon. He is working and I am in law school. I have changed my schedule so that I will only be in class two days a week so I can take care of the new baby. I am planning to hire a nanny for the two days a week I will be in school. He has suggested that I take time off from school to be a full time mom instead. I asked him to talk to his employer about taking time off when the baby is born to help and his response was that he didn't want to. His job is flexible but he does not want to ask his employer about any options for time off. I feel like he expects me to make all the changes in my life to accommodate our growing family but doesn't want to change anything in his life. Should I be able to expect more support?

Is this Paranormal activity?

Two nights in a row now, when I try to go to sleep, I hear things that I can't explain. It always happens as I'm starting to doze off. The first night ( two nights ago) I heard clear as day someone step up to my door, and a female voice say "Hey Tony!" (that's my name). Then last night, again right as I started to doze off, there was two rapps on my door, and when I startled awake, I saw a quick flash of a young boy turn toward my door as if to run away, but it vanished as quick as I saw it. Is this my imagination? The footsteps, the voice and the knock on my door where very loud and clear. I'm not scared, but I live in an old house, and I'm curious if anyone has had these experiences.

Can't seem to run faster?

I have been jogging for 4 times a week for approximately 3/3 and a half months, and have been managing to go for about 3.4 miles without stopping for some time now and was starting to feel that I was getting somewhat fit. However, I simply cannot run any faster; I timed myself once and was so horrified at how slow I was going that I've been too afraid of letting myself down again (I averaged about a 14 minute mile). In each of my runs I've strived to achieve better times and pushed myself hard but I just don't seem to speed up. Is there anything I can do to see more progress?

Do lawyers get a payment from closing a sale?

He doesn't get paid anything special, no. He just doesn't want to re-do all of the paperwork over small mistakes.

Difference between Epidural and Spinal?

I am going in for a scheduled c section for my second child in two weeks and asked the doctor what they use for planned c sections and he said a spinal. Anyone out there with experience with these two items that can tell me what to expect as far as recovery time, major differences between the two, is one more painful than the other, etc? Thanks for your help!

What are the best birth control pills out there? USERS ONLY PLEASE!?

I've had the Mirena IUD for the past 5 years & I am scheduled to have it removed later in the week. I was planning on having the Mirena reinserted but my insurance isnt going to cover it so I've decided to go with "the pill". I know that birth control pills have come along way in the past few years so I just want honest opinions on the different ones & the pros & cons of each. Please only answer if you've personally used the type of birth control pill that you're referring to. Thanks in advance :)

What's the weekly schedule of (Catholic) mass services in San Pedro (St. Peter) Church in Limpias (Spain)?

I'll be visiting Santander and I was planning to visit Limpias; and hopefully to attend mass the San Pedro church there. I'm not sure what day of the week I would be there, so I was hoping someone would know the weekly schedule of services in the church.

Would you use a professional hair care series or one that's on the natural side?

So, would you rather go for a professional salon hair care series or one that strives for natural ingredients, like Lush? And why would you pick one over the other?

How Can I Make 600 Dollars (Or More) in One Month?

i dont want to bring you down or anything but i dont think people will take you seriously just because your 13...

Is it normal to make humming noises in your sleep?

I've made humming noises in my sleep for several years now, I'm 20 and I'll admit a little bit overweight (not extremely obese) My family and friends tell me it sounds like I'm eating or like I'm humming or even like I'm having sex (weird right?). I've sometimes half-heard myself and it mostly seems to happen when I doze off or I'm not in deep sleep. I'm tired of it as my girlfriend and family make fun of it regularly. I'd like advice as to how to get rid of or improve this situation. Thank you

35 weeks pregnant and im having headaches when i lie down?

I'm currently 35 weeks pregnant and for the last 4 or 5 days I've been suffering from headaches when I lay down to go to sleep. Even if I doze off when I wake up the headache is still there. It is becoming very annoying. I've been taking tylenol but they only make me sleepy. I also realized that if I sit up or stand up the headache pain goes away, only to return if I lie back down..its hard enough to sleep already. What could be going on? I want some rest.